Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Lincoln's Blessing and OtHeR sTuFf
Thursday, August 06, 2009
5 YEARS ALREADY!!
Things I’ve learned in 5 years of marriage
I’ve learned that quality time IS quantity time
I’ve learned that thinking is an ability we have, not necessarily a reality
I’ve learned that being happy is more important than being right
I’ve learned that an apology is, “I’m sorry.” Not, “I’m sorry you feel that way.”
I’ve learned it is important to compliment more and criticize less
I’ve learned to laugh at myself AND my husband
I’ve learned that sarcasm is not uplifting and is rarely an effective way to communicate
I’ve learned that it’s important to ask for what I want and not expect anyone to read my mind
I’ve learned that all frustration comes from unmet expectations, so communicating expectations and managing them prevents frustration.
I’ve learned that communicating about communication is essential.
I’ve learned it is best not to parent my spouse
I’ve learned that
I’ve learned that worry is not worth the energy
I’ve learned that it’s awful to be a dream stealer and a fun sucker. It is more important to let the person you love talk about things they want, things they can’t afford and dreams they have. It helps us believe in ourselves and each other.
I’ve learned it’s important to believe in your spouse no matter what.
I’ve learned that being happy is a choice regardless of circumstances, hunger, or PMS!!!
I’ve learned that the use of superlatives like NEVER and ALWAYS is usually ineffective
I’ve learned not to discuss important issues when I’m hungry, tired or in a low mood.
I’ve learned that praying together teaches us more about each other than a lot of other things
I’ve learned that praising your spouse in front of others is important
I’ve learned that correcting or interrupting in front of others is not worth it. The details that get corrected probably aren’t crucial to the story anyway
I’ve learned that there’s no such thing as, “That’s just the way I am.” We always have room to improve.
I’m sure there are lots more, and even more to come, but I think